People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that particular person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to help you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support...Or maybe help you physically, emotionally or spiritually... They may seems like a godsend and of course they are lol~ They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without doing anything wrong on your part or inconvenient time, this person will say or maybe do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die... Sometimes they walk away... Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you peace or make you laugh. Of course, they may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season..sigh~
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build in order to have a solid emotional foundation. We have to accept the lesson but not to reject it, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas or your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. When you are in love the person can do no wrong in your eyes and when you are friends with someone you can almost predict what they will say..
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
D.T.
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