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People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that particular person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to help you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support...Or maybe help you physically, emotionally or spiritually... They may seems like a godsend and of course they are lol~ They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without doing anything wrong on your part or inconvenient time, this person will say or maybe do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die... Sometimes they walk away... Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you peace or make you laugh. Of course, they may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season..sigh~

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build in order to have a solid emotional foundation. We have to accept the lesson but not to reject it, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas or your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. When you are in love the person can do no wrong in your eyes and when you are friends with someone you can almost predict what they will say..

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

D.T.

Friendship

Hello Friend...

Once i sat and thought of what is a FRIEND to ME??? And i came to a conclusion which i would like to share it with my near and dear friend...That's you~

It is BY CHANCE we met, BY CHOICE we became friends..

Friendship is a strange thing. We find ourselves telling each other the deepest details of our lives. Things we don't even share with our families who raised us. But what is a Friend? Is it A confidant? A lover? A fellow email junkie? A shoulder to cry on? An ear to listen? Or a heart to feel?

A friend is all these things...and more. No matter where we met, i call you Friend. A word so small, yet so large in feeling, a word filled with emotion. It is true great things come in small packages. Once the package of FRIENDSHIP has been opened, it can never be closed. It is a constant book always written, waiting to be read and enjoyed. We may have our disagreements. We may argue. We may concern one another. Friendship is a unique bond that lasts through it all. A part of me is put into my friends. Some it is my humor, some it is my listening ear, some it is real life experiences, some it is my romanticism. But with all, it is friendship. Friendships forged are a construct stronger than steel built as a foundation. Necessary for life and necessary for love. Friends, you and me, you brought another friend, and then there were 3. We started our group. Our circle of friends, and like that circle, there is no beginning no end.

We've Been Friends for such a long and lovely time. There is no friend like the old friend who has shared our morning days, no greeting like his welcome, no homage like his praise; Fame is the scentless sunflower, with a gaudy crown of gold; But friendship is the breathing rose, with sweets in every fold.

Thanks for being a very good friend to me...

P/S: Friendship is like wine, it gets better as it grows older.

D.T.